3/52 – I know not what the future holds, but I know who holds the future

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“Criticism is something you can avoid easily — by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” ~ Aristotle

Sometimes others can say it better than you and me. A timely quote or stirring poem can cause us to stop and think. When it comes to inaction I’ve said much in the past here, here, and even in this post about using the fear excuse. But, here are a few who certainly say it better than I.


On saying nothing…

Martin Niemöller’s poem First They Came…

When the Nazis came for the communists,
I remained silent;
I was not a communist.

When they locked up the social democrats,
I remained silent;
I was not a social democrat.

When they came for the trade unionists,
I did not speak out;
I was not a trade unionist.

When they came for the Jews,
I remained silent;
I wasn’t a Jew.

When they came for me,
there was no one left to speak out.

On doing nothing…

“There are risks and costs to action. But they are far less than the long range risks of comfortable inaction.” ~ John F. Kennedy

On being nothing…

“Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment and to either of these ends there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence, and honest purpose, as well as perspiration. Seeming to do is not doing.” ~ Thomas Edison

Nothing more needs to be said, right?



Jonathan and Jeevan

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I went for a walk this evening and while I was out I came across a sign in front of a church that said, “Making a living is not making a life.” Typically I don’t pay too much attention to signs like these because I find some of the messages silly, but this one got me thinking.

Have you forgot about your life?

Consider:

  • All those hours you spend on Twitter, other social networking tools, or the Internet overall in an effort to make a living (or go viral), are they worth it?
  • Are you an admitted workaholic? I see some people joke about it sometimes, but if you are the odds are pretty good you’re not thinking about your life.
  • Are you so busy making a living that you’re cutting into time you could be spending with family and friends?

These are questions only you can answer. If you’re doing a pretty good job at making a living, it’s probably a good time to step back and make sure you’re actually making a life too. It’s just a little something to consider.



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elsie*rva

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  1. Work hard, but ignore the politics.
  2. Talk about things other than work with your co-workers.
  3. Decide each morning you’re going to have a good day – no matter how bad things get.
  4. Take a break and walk away from your desk sometimes.
  5. Stop worrying about what everyone else is doing and focus on what you need to do.
  6. Try learning something new.
  7. Apply for a new position.
  8. Realize there are more important things in your life than your job.
  9. Avoid the gossips, the troublemakers, and malcontents as much as possible.
  10. If all else fails, set a goal for an exit strategy that will help you move on in your career or start a new one altogether.

Do you have any more to add?



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Mighty Mouse

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Being a leader isn’t bossing people around. Being a leader is showing people the way.

When you see a manager struggling to lead her team, it’s probably because she looks at her position of leadership in two erroneous ways. First of all she probably thinks it’s her job as a manager to strictly maintain (or manage) the status quo. Second she probably thinks that leading is about bossing people around. Both ideas couldn’t be further from the truth.

The best leaders recognize that sometimes the status quo needs bucked in order for real change and results to take place. Also, the best leaders know they need to be showing people the way. It’s one of the fundamental differences between a manager and a leader. One bosses and the other reveals.

So the question is: Are you bossing or leading?



This garden swallowed my face.

Originally uploaded by Sherri DuPree Bemis


Sometimes you get off course. Everyone does once in a while. The trick once you look around and realize it, is stopping and reversing course.

It’s easier said than done, of course.

Sometimes reversing course requires admitting you were wrong. Pride must be swallowed. Sometimes reversing course means you must change. Change can be difficult to carry out. Sometimes reversing course means you need to say you’re sorry. Humility must be learned.

But, in any aspect of your life (personal, business, etc.) isn’t it better than continuing down the wrong road? Right?



mackenzie

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  1. If you’re afraid to get your hands dirty, you’re not ready to lead.
  2. If you’re afraid to be held accountable, you’re not ready to lead.
  3. If you’re afraid to hold others accountable, you’re not ready to lead.
  4. If you’re unwilling to take a stand on something, you’re not ready to lead.
  5. If you’re unable to build solid teams, you’re not ready to lead.
  6. If you’re always concerned about what others are saying about you, you’re not ready to lead.
  7. If you’re unable to be even handed, straightforward, and honest in your dealings with others, you’re not ready to lead.
  8. If you’re unable to show others respect and treat others with kindness, you’re not ready to lead.
  9. If your idea of team building involves pitting people against each other, you’re not ready to lead.
  10. If you’re more concerned about your image than getting it right, you’re not ready to lead.

Do you have some more to add to the list?



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You can’t be. So stop trying.

  • Learn to say no.
  • Learn to speak up.
  • Learn to form your own opinions.
  • Learn to seek the truth.
  • Learn to be true.
  • Learn to ask the tough questions.
  • Learn that sometimes you may need to take an unpopular stand.
  • Learn to disagree when it’s necessary – but don’t be disagreeable.
  • Learn to realize you will never make everyone happy.
  • Learn to understand you may upset someone.
  • Learn to be you and stop trying to live someone else’s life.

You can’t be everything to everyone. So stop trying.



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